As a typical Gemini you talk a lot and you are never where you were five minutes
ago. No one can tie the Twins down with a heavy cord and expect this sylph of
the air to remain patiently waiting until the cord is tugged. More likely,
you'll perform a Houdini-like trick and vanish before their eyes, leaving them
with the cord. You are unpredictable, changeable as quicksilver, loving disguise
and mimicry, fascinated for a little while with just about everything, quick to
become bored and move on.
Gemini is the butterfly of the zodiac (some butterflies are smaller and
nimbler than others, but they all fly). Of course there are Geminis who have
become skilled at some particular study, art or profession. But even they must
find variety within their chosen field.
Your sign is sometimes accused of being superficial and shallow. That's
simply not true. Your mind is perfectly capable of depth and concentration, when
necessary. It's just that if you spend too long on one thing, you might miss
something else. And missing out on something potentially interesting is the
next-to-worst thing that could happen to you. The worst is being bored.
Your restless mind seeks a broad and comprehensive spectrum of knowledge, and
the further you pursue your education, the happier you're likely to be. You're
the eternal student, from cradle to grave. You're interested in people (from a
safe emotional distance), and will talk to just about anybody to hear a new
point of view. There isn't any prejudice or narrowness in you; you're a true
democrat at heart. A price must be paid, of course, for all these sparkling
gifts. You may sacrifice the capacity for deeper relating in order to preserve
your mobility. Yours is not a sign which likes heated emotional confrontations.
Geminis often joke about the things they feel most intensely about. If
someone starts pouring out their deepest soul in grand, theatrical gestures,
like the butterfly you're likely to fly away - through emotional disconnection
if not literally. With all that knowledge clattering about inside your skull,
you can sometimes be curiously blind about your own deeper feelings.
This is the least introspective of the signs, and it can take some very
painful experiences to get you to sit down and deal honestly with all those
messy emotions. And when you do, you're likely to observe and dissect your own
feelings with the same detached curiosity with which you observe and dissect
other people's. It's no wonder that so many Geminis are gifted writers. It's the
spectator who sees most of the game.
Like a child, you're capable of having several distinct personalities. You
can be tender, delicate, poetic and exquisitely attuned to the world around you.
You're also capable of plunging into some pretty sour black moods, which,
fortunately, rarely last very long, and are forgotten immediately afterward.
You hate being probed and questioned, although you're not averse to probing
other people, and if you're expected to explain your behaviour, you're happy to
make something up just to throw others off the scent. You're capable of
practising big and little deceptions, both on others and yourself, if you feel
too pinned down. But deep down, you have strong ethics, and you try to deal with
people fairly.
Duty for duty's sake isn't your style, of course, and you like to travel
light. If you're trapped in a morass of endless domestic duties or a boring job
which doesn't stimulate your lively and curious mind, you'll either go to pieces
in a mass of nervous fidgeting, nail-biting and paper-shredding, or you'll
simply leave. Commitment can be difficult for you, even when you're deeply in
love. It's not that you don't feel intensely, and you can remain constant in a
good relationship for a lifetime. But you don't enjoy being nailed down to the
earth. The butterfly brings joy and magic only if it's allowed to fly free.
In love they are fickle, not intentionally so but because of the basic
inconsistency of their emotional nature, which has an amoral aspect to it. Their
is a side to Geminians which can become deeply involved emotionally, and
another, hostile to sentimentality, which stands back from a romantic situation,
laughing at it and the protagonists in it, including themselves while analyzing
it intellectually. Gemini subjects take nothing seriously. So, in love, in spite
of their temporary depth of feeling, for the intensity of involvement lasts only
while it is new, they are superficial, light-hearted, cool, flirtatious and
unimaginative in the understanding of the pain they may give others.
Gemini people have fickle mind which is always changing. They are extremely
friendly creatures by nature and want no pain in their life. Gemini people
invented the art of sarcasm, sneaking words into their conversation not ever
meaning what they say. Their words are mere antics used to charm or sweet-talk
their listeners. Gemini people tend to think they have everyone analyzed right
down to the very last degree. They run with their own ideas and show everyone,
including themselves that they are going full boar down that straight and narrow
path to that idea that is until it changes again. They try to convince others,
and quite successfully by the way, that they do not think erratically. Fantasy
and false interpretation is where the real niche is.
Their good qualities are attractive and come easily to them. They are
affectionate, courteous, kind, generous, and thoughtful towards the poor and
suffering - provided none of the activities resulting
from expressing these traits interferes too greatly with their own lives and
comforts. They quickly learn to use their outward attractiveness to gain their
own ends, and when striving for these they will use any weapon in their armory -
unscrupulous lying, and cunning evasiveness; escaping blame by contriving to put
it on other people, wrapped up in all
the
charm they can turn on.
In their better moments they may strive to be
honest and straightforward, but self-interest is almost always the victor. If
things go against them, they sulk like children. Also like children, they demand
attention, admiration, and the spending on them of time, energy and
money, throwing tantrums if they don't
get what they want.
They reflect every change in their surroundings, like
chameleons, and can become pessimistic, sullen, peevish and materialistically
self-centered if circumstances force them to struggle in any way. If the
conditions of life become really adverse, their strength of will may desert them
entirely. They can become uncertain of themselves, either withdrawn, or
nervously excitable worriers, sullenly discontented, hard and irritable, with
"Self" looming ever larger in their struggles.
On the other hand their
versatility can make them very adaptable, adjusting themselves to control the
world around them by means of their inherent ingenuity and cleverness.
To them life is a game which must always be full of fresh moves and continuous
entertainment, free of labor and routine. Changing horses in the middle of the
stream is another small quirk in the Gemini personality which makes decision
making, and sticking to a decision, particularly hard for them.
Most Geminians have a keen, intuitive, sometimes brilliant intelligence and
they love cerebral challenges. But their
concentration, though intense for a while, does not last.
Their mental agility and energy give them a voracious appetite for knowledge
from youth onward, though they dislike the labor of learning.
They easily grasp
almost everything requiring intelligence and mental dexterity, and are often
able to marry manual skills to their qualities of mind. Their intellect is
strongly analytical and sometimes gives them so great an ability to see both
sides of a question that they vacillate and find it hard to make decisions. But
their intelligence may very well be used to control and unify the duality of
their natures into a most efficient unit.
If faced with difficulties, they have
little determination to worry at a problem until they find a solution - they
will pick the brains of others. In their intellectual pursuits, as in other
departments of their lives, they
risk becoming dilettantes, losing themselves in too many projects which they
follow until they become difficult.
Your sexuality is, well, shall we say, fickle? Let's face it, you do
blow hot and cold (sometimes even at the
same time, a feat not easily appreciable by the non-Geminian...).
You love
adventure and intrigue and will take
all manner of risks in the runaround involved with your urgent desire to avoid
boredom. Ruled by
Mercury, the
god (among other things) of tricksters and thieves, you are far from
straightforward and uncomplicated in the pursuit of your desires.
Your
penchant for variety and need for constant stimulation often finds you the
strangest bedfellows. The
main
requirement is verbal communication. If they can talk, they can talk you into it
(and vice versa). Your greatest
aphrodisiac is a partner (or partners) with a flashing wit,
quick mind and tolerant appreciation of your sparkling insights and observations
of the bizarre trends in human behaviour.
Sexually you are adventurous
and will try anything that is exciting, new, or off the beaten track. So long as
it involves another stimulating item to add to your repertoire, just about any
sexual height can be attained, providing that it does not become
habitual.
You tend to be ambi-sexual and are not unduly averse to
multiple partners of either sex, should they fit the needs of the moment and
spark up one or another side of
your often contradictory nature.
Admirers should be aware that your dual
nature may not be satisfied with just one partner. You are tolerant of most
things (including infidelity, but excepting dullness!) and you expect the same
tolerance that you allow others.
Gemini Looks
A good
looking woman with brains, a very interesting person. She has a fast movement
and she could not sit still or stand still long. She is able to do many things
at the same time and do it fast. If you date her, you will feel like dating many
women at the same time. You can not tie her down with the word “Love” because
she cares about love but is it not a major factor of her life.
You have to be able to adjust yourself to get along with her many different
characters. She is a dreamer and has many dreams. She is eager to learn
something new all the time. Even she is the 2 in 1 mixed character type, she is
quite lucky in love. You have to put all your efforts to win her affection.
Even when she likes you and wonder about your wit, she will also see and
inspect your bad side at the same time, because it is in her nature. She able to
keep all kinds of mixed emotions without annoying you or letting you know at
all. She can cheer you up by acting like a free little bird. Her conversation
will not bore you. She is able to talk to you in any subjects. She can make you
feel like you are the luckiest man alive.
She can make you feel like she needs all your care, but once she needs to
stand alone, she can stand alone firmly and comfortably. She can be your best
buddy and talk to you about anything. She can join all your activities with the
same energy that you have. She is a quick a wit person and learn new things very
fast. She can see your projects and she can give you good advice. If she thinks
you are not sure that you want her for yourself, she will act like your best
friend only, a cool woman.
She can easily make a guy fall in love with her. Her multiple changes and
many moods is a “Charm” for many men. She can be laughing for 2 minutes and
later suddenly quiet. She wants to find only 1 true love and she wants to meet
her dream guy. She expects a lot and nearly too much. She is constantly waiting
for her knight shinning armor even she is with a steady boyfriend. She can fall
in love or fond of someone else while she is with you.
If you break up with her, she will forget you quite fast, because change is
in her nature. The Gemini woman breaks more heart than woman in other Zodiac.
Because she is a dreamer and always waiting for her knight shinning armor, so
her love life can be complex or a mess. She hates to write a long letter, so if
you write her a letter and expect a prompt reply, forget it.
Because she has a multiple personality and multiple ideas, so she hates to
put them down in written proof. Because she knows what she belief today can be
different tomorrow. She could communication with more than 1 language, a real
gifted linguistic. If she wants to tell you any bad comments, she won’t say it
straight away, but she will talk to you about many other things and accidentally
come to that subject without offending you.
Normally she will not lie. She will work hard and once a while take a long
rest. She can get bored and tired with her own surrounding more than at work.
She never feels content with her present work, money, or reputations; she will
drive to have more. Don’t ask her what is her ultimate contentment for she will
not have an answer. Once you get to know her, she will be a supportive person
and always be beside you. She has a beautiful dream and she loves to have
someone walk side by side with her, together and equally.
